So here’s the tricky part: if you’re too much of an aloof asshole, she’ll be unable to trust you and her crazy behavior will just get worse.
So whenever you feel the rage building up inside, realize that you would have most likely turned out the same way had you also been abused by your caretakers.Who she is today is a result of her shitty childhood and this standpoint will make it easier to have concern for her well-being, regardless of the crap you she puts you through.Now, no matter how tight your game, you’re going to be forever locked into a never-ending frame battle.But whenever I voiced my concerns they would simply say, “Yeah, you’re probably right but I don’t care. ” I learned that when a man is dead-set on making his situation work, there’s almost nothing you can do to talk him out of it. Borderline girls typically end up with two types of men: needy tools (who they destroy) and guys with real Dark Triad traits who truly don’t give a shit.So this article is for the guys out there whose masochistic tendencies run deep and are ready for a world of pain. Avoiding deep emotional investment is the only way to stay in the game and not get crushed but it’s much easier said than done, especially if you’re not a sociopath.
Dating borderline women is like playing the game of thrones with one exception: winning isn’t an option. The good news: if you can maintain your frame, you’ll render the competition irrelevant and the girl will be absolutely addicted to you.
The bad news: she’ll still be in your life and you’ll have to deal with her craziness on a near-daily basis.
There have been a number of excellent articles written here about girls who suffer from personality disorders (like BPD).
The general consensus seems to be “run like hell” and while I agree wholeheartedly with this advice, in actuality, most guys will fail to heed the warnings of more experienced men.
I’ve always been extremely passionate about helping guys handle their breakup challenges.
Many times, it’s apparent that their ex is a bit on the crazy side and would make the guy’s life a living hell if he got her back.