Her short, concise advice will be a common thread throughout this article. “Web chat — sexy web cam and mutual masturbation phone sex.” 2.Not comfortable getting frisky online or over the phone? Jess Ph D has some creative advice for bashful communicators. Filming your own sex tape in the throes of solo passion might be too intimidating, so consider sending a very short clip of your self-pleasure session filmed in the dark.Your lover will benefit from the sounds -- and the lack of a clear picture helps to build mystery and anticipation.” Dr.
How do you maintain a healthy sex life when you and your partner live hundreds or thousands of miles apart?
Perhaps one or both of you travel a lot for work or maybe you’ve got a spouse stationed overseas for a military assignment.
While it’s said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, staying sexually satisfied in a monogamous relationship presents unique challenges when the physical touch of your lover is beyond your fingertips.
We reached out to six leading sexperts who share their best tips to help you keep your LDR (long distance relationship) smoking hot! Let’s kick off our column with The Love Guru Blaire who founded Six Figure Singles, a site that helps traveling executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities find healthy relationships.
Daily Special Phone Call: Keep the phone as special as you can.
Handle mundane business via email, IM or text message and keep the phone for making that intimate connection.
As often as possible, schedule a phone call every day—at a quiet time—for some intimate conversation.
So aside from gifting your distant lover with steamy masturbation clips, what real-time methods does she recommend for interactive thrills?
“Meet in an adult chat room online and get naughty! Romance) is a psychotherapist who [literally] wrote the book on staying close during a long distance relationship.
Using a nickname might help you to shed your inhibitions.” 3. She’s the author of The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You're Far Apart. Romance makes a good point in that you can plant the seeds for your time apart before your partner leaves, then follow through with her relationship maintenance tips once you’re apart: Leave Notes: Before you leave on a trip, plant some little post-it notes -- inside the cupboard doors, in the mailbox, under your spouse's pillow, etc.
If you're the stay-at-home spouse, tuck a few surprises into your mate's suitcase, briefcase or between the pages of a book he or she is taking — it's a quick and easy way to spice up your relationship.