You learn how they work, and then you get rid of them because they are just training wheels to get you riding the bike yourself. How to get women interested in you and build deep rapport with them by just , or use other people's words.
Long after all the clever pickup lines and approaches have been exposed, You can't get caught using one of these "techniques" if you're always being YOU. No matter how many techniques you learn, you will always end up back here with me working on your inner game.
Again, the biggest mistake we make as men is assuming that because what you're doing isn't working, that means that it's YOU that's at fault.As if you're entire value as a man is based on a skill you've never been taught.Just like the example I just gave you of the guitar style I was trying to find, there are TONS of "systems" and outer game techniques out there that work the same way.And then later on down the road I could be more "real" with her.I even tried being more like a "player" to jack up women's attraction for me.
Well, that actually backfired on me, too, because even though I got them more interested in me at the start, I started having less success getting another date with them.
I lost her trust by being too intense with the player vibe. You can find a thousand techniques out there, and only a handful that actually work for you. I wasn't very original, and I started feeling and acting like a clone instead of being unique.
I'd talk to women about my hobbies and what I thought was interesting, but I never seemed to get anywhere.
When I was on a date, I'd ask a bunch of questions - because I'm supposed to show interest in her in some way.
After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth.
I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.