If a man starts flirting with you in line at Starbucks, it isn’t because you look Being intelligent when it comes to men isn’t the about your comprehensive knowledge of nuclear physics or finance; it’s about a complete understanding of one subject, him.
If you’re smart about men, you’ll realize that there are better ways to display your intelligence than what I see some women doing in the dating world today.
If you’re an intelligent woman and you have the documents to prove it, good for you but being smart about men isn’t the same as being book smart. What every smart person should know is being charismatic is just as important as being intelligent.
There is a stigma in western culture that beauty and brains don’t mix.Just because a lot of so-called beautiful women act dumb in pop culture doesn’t mean being smart equals being ugly but society often promotes that association.Caring about what you look like isn’t the ultimate betrayal of feminism or an insult to female intelligence.Feeling beautiful is an essential part of being a woman yet some very intelligent women ignore their looks almost as an allegiance to their intelligence. It has never been scientifically proven that men prefer beauty over brains.
What we do know is that even the smartest women do some dumb things when it comes to love.
There’s the story of the doctor who tried to climb down her ex-boyfriends chimney and died or the astronaut who drove cross-country in a diaper to confront her lover’s girlfriend. No man goes out to a bar, to a nightclub, to a strip club for that matter to meet an intelligent woman.
He isn’t searching for laundry list of degrees or accolades.
Any desire to want to inspire and appreciate beauty should be embraced not judged or demeaned.
Intelligent women can sometimes minimize the importance of beauty by neglecting their own looks or putting down the looks of other women.
At the end of the day do you want a man who isn’t attracted to all of you?