I would venture to guess that men are more willing to do the work and keep their relationships strong, fulfilling and everlasting. Perhaps he learned to listen more or spend less time at the office and has since changed his ways.
This may be too late for the relationship in question, but it bodes well for the next woman in his life.
Trust us, a divorcé will be the best boyfriend you've ever had.A recent study conducted by the Marriage Foundation revealed a surprising statistic: although 45 percent of marriages end in divorce, only 31 percent of second marriages fail. As a 30-something, single gal looking to settle down, perhaps I have been searching down the wrong path?Maybe the assumption that divorced equals baggage is contradictory to the actual truth of the matter. Remember the episode of when Ross' neurosis hits an all-time high at the prospect of a second (and then a third) divorce?I pondered this article for quite some time and ultimately decided that perhaps divorced men do, in fact, make better boyfriends. This fear can serve as a strong motivator to get it right the second time around. Relationships are learning experiencing and when one endures the finality of divorce, he is forced to reflect upon his actions.This is a time for you to get in touch with your feelings; admittedly something we men generally don't do well.
This is a time to heal and regroup, to look within to heal your battle wounds from the divorce.
The worst thing you can do is quickly get into a rebound relationship.
You may also be sad that your dream to live happily ever after with your ex didn't pan out. Maybe the divorce process didn't go your way or perhaps you are angry with yourself for letting a good relationship go south; maybe you are still angry at your ex for cheating on you.
You may even be afraid of your new life alone and the prospect of asking women out (and you thought you were done with that when you got married! Finally, you may be ashamed that you are now a divorced man.
Below are tips to navigate the post-divorce turbulent waters.
You The biggest mistake that men make after divorce is jumping into the dating scene too quickly.