Knowing that there are multiple reasons to why people are shy will allow you to understand and be patient with the girl you're wanting to get to know (and potentially date).Being too straightforward and pushing her to talk will only make her feel pressured and less likely to feel comfortable around you.
If you can make a girl comfortable around you, you're well on your way to being able to ask her out (or have her ask you out!
)Tips on Making a Shy Girl Comfortable Around You One of the easiest and most effective ways to get a shy girl to be comfortable around you is to make her laugh and be goofy around her.
Let her know that you're the biggest goofball between the two of you.
I've always been a shy girl myself, so below is some very good advice that I would give to people who would want to date a shy girl, as well as what has worked (and what hasn't) when someone was dating me.
Before you even consider to date a shy girl or befriend her, it's important to understand that people are shy for their own reasons.
Some girls are shy because they have had a bad experience in the past, such as getting bullied for being the "know-it-all" in class while others learned from their parents to never talk unless spoken to.Some girls are also more shy around boys, especially if they've never had someone interested in them before. Shy people are all different, just like outgoing people are.One thing you might wanna be mindful of is if she is not an overly affectionate person or a person that "declares love" the same as more outgoing girls would. Getting to know someone who is shy can be a frustrating experience, especially if you don't know the reasons why that particular person is shy.In a dating situation you may read the signs wrong or not be able to judge if she is actually into you or interested.